I read that the malls were packed with Christmas Eve shoppers, but it turns out we were all alone at the Christmas Tree farm. I suppose it would be even nicer to get the tree on the afternoon of the 24th, so as not to cut our Advent short, but I fully understand their desire to close at noon on that day.
There was plenty of time to do all the decorations and Christmas baking. At 7:00 am on Christmas morning, there will be an explosion of sound: Bach's Christmas Oratorio and the pounding of feet as children race to their stockings. Breakfast this year will be pumpkin bread, sausage, Clementines and orange juice. After the 9:00 am Mass we will put Baby Jesus in the manger. And then presents.
It seems like a lot of presents, but we have a lot of people. I have grown much less concerned about the materialism of Christmas as we have settled into our waiting-for-Christmas-to-celebrate-Christmas routine. Believe me, the kids notice that everyone else is celebrating Christmas from the end of November while they have to wait. And they can also tell you that it makes no sense to celebrate before the 25th. So even if they each have 3 or 4 presents to open, they know that Christmas is about Jesus Christ. So if everyone in the family wants to give to Christopher, or Daddy wants to give Mommy five presents, that's okay!
A very Blessed Christmas to all!
This is a good day!
Saturday, December 25, 2010
Saturday, December 18, 2010
Aprons!
These are the first of the aprons I ordered from my nephew Thomas. He is raising money for summer camp by selling homemade aprons. The one being worn by Stephen is made from his dad's old uniform. I am pretty sure that he wore this uniform in Afghanistan while engaged in firefights with the Taliban.
Wednesday, December 1, 2010
Cruel and Unusual?
Perhaps this is the beginning of the end for me, but I don't find spanking as rewarding as I once did. We have moved into sit-ups as our most regular form of punishment. (What does being grounded mean to a homeschooler?) The exercise is good for the kids, and one can easily adjust the number of sit-ups to fit the gravity of the offense.
Tonight there was room inspections and ten sit-ups were awarded for each item not picked up. The boys earned 70. (I had Stephen crawl under the double bed to get a stray sock and some bits of paper.) The girls earned 40.
Laurence and Paula were not required to do any sit-ups. Not having figured out yet that this is a punishment, they did not want to miss out on the fun.
Tonight there was room inspections and ten sit-ups were awarded for each item not picked up. The boys earned 70. (I had Stephen crawl under the double bed to get a stray sock and some bits of paper.) The girls earned 40.
Laurence and Paula were not required to do any sit-ups. Not having figured out yet that this is a punishment, they did not want to miss out on the fun.
Saturday, November 20, 2010
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Movie Star Eyes
Marie & Po were in town for the weekend to attend a wedding, and we were blessed with a visit.
Cecilia (top & bottom) and Kateri
Tuesday, November 2, 2010
Marcus Berquist requiescat in pace.
Marc, a friend, teacher and colleague of mine, passed away this morning. He was the husband of MODG founder Laura, who is also our consultant. Marc was easily in the handful of most brilliant men I have known; his mind was perhaps the most formal and precise among them. I remember hearing about Marc before I met him, and his reputation had me both fascinated and intimidated. I found him to be humble and ever the generous teacher. One thing I did notice when I first met him: his pants--they were otherwise fine but showed wear in just one place . . . at the knees.
Book Recommendation
A Man Without Words by Susan Schaller
This short book tells the compellng story of a 27 year old man who was entirely without language. Born deaf to an impoverished family in southern Mexico, his request to go to school was denied by his parents so he could work and beg on the street. He knew not a single word in any language, even sign language: he could only point and mime his thoughts. Without language he was unable to understand many simple concepts, such as writing, time and geography. The author finds him as an illegal in the US and struggles to open his mind to the world of language.
There are many touching moments in the book: After much frustration, he finally understands that the word "cat" stands for the animal, that the written word and hand sign are symbols, they have meaning. The discovery is so profound that he weeps. At another time he shows his teacher the first sign he has learned from someone other than her: "stupid." He tells he "you smart, me stupid". She rejects this thought and tries to convince him of their equality. She acts out showing him that they were both babies at the same time and then both grew to be children. She then went to school, but what did he do? He then acts out for her his begging on the street. While she went to school, he begged.
The book has a happy and uplifting ending, although you become aware that his case is far from unique. As a parent I was struck by the immense value of education. Without it, one is cut off from almost all human contact, all human culture. How much one enters into human society is to a large degree determined by how much one is educated. (I do not mean only formal education.)
There is also much in the book to make one think about human nature, human society and the nature of language.
This short book tells the compellng story of a 27 year old man who was entirely without language. Born deaf to an impoverished family in southern Mexico, his request to go to school was denied by his parents so he could work and beg on the street. He knew not a single word in any language, even sign language: he could only point and mime his thoughts. Without language he was unable to understand many simple concepts, such as writing, time and geography. The author finds him as an illegal in the US and struggles to open his mind to the world of language.
There are many touching moments in the book: After much frustration, he finally understands that the word "cat" stands for the animal, that the written word and hand sign are symbols, they have meaning. The discovery is so profound that he weeps. At another time he shows his teacher the first sign he has learned from someone other than her: "stupid." He tells he "you smart, me stupid". She rejects this thought and tries to convince him of their equality. She acts out showing him that they were both babies at the same time and then both grew to be children. She then went to school, but what did he do? He then acts out for her his begging on the street. While she went to school, he begged.
The book has a happy and uplifting ending, although you become aware that his case is far from unique. As a parent I was struck by the immense value of education. Without it, one is cut off from almost all human contact, all human culture. How much one enters into human society is to a large degree determined by how much one is educated. (I do not mean only formal education.)
There is also much in the book to make one think about human nature, human society and the nature of language.
Monday, November 1, 2010
Thursday, October 28, 2010
A Dialogue and Commentary
Dialogue
John: I have thought this through again and again, and I just can’t bring myself to vote for either major party candidate.
Adversary: But you have to! Don’t you admit that one of the candidates is not only incompetent and crazy but also supports all sorts of wickedness? He supports all the kinds of immorality that caused God to flood the earth, rain down fire and brimstone on Sodom and Gomorrah , and put the inhabitants of Canaan under the ban. You have to stop him from being elected!
John: Yes, I know he is wicked, but I can’t vote for the other candidate.
Adversary: He also proposes to exterminate all Jews and Black people! You have to stop him from being elected!
John: I know, but his opponent wants to exterminate all Blacks, too.
Adversary: Blacks but not Jews: that is a lesser evil. And besides, you like her views on other issues, such as on fish and game regulations.
John: I know, but it is not enough.
Adversary: You acknowledge her business acumen and track record of success. And the poverty in the state is causing untold harm to millions of people.
John: True.
Adversary: How can I dissuade you from this position you hold so stubbornly?
John: My reason can see no other course.
Adversary: Single-issue voter!
John: There are some issues, any one of which all by itself would make it impossible for me to vote for a given candidate. It follows from this that there is no single issue that would make me vote for a candidate.
Adversary: Where I live, there are many people who see that sometimes you need to do the lesser evil in order to avoid a greater evil.
End of the dialogue.
[Notes: The Hebrew word for “adversary” is “satan”. There are about 2.8 million Blacks in California . The number of abortions in California per year is around 280,000. So, the number of abortions in the last ten years in California approximately equals the number of Blacks in the state. I have no idea how many Jews there are: the point is only that Jews and Blacks together are more than Blacks alone.]
Commentary
Speaking precisely, one may never do something evil, no matter how small. “Do good and avoid evil” is the most fundamental principle of moral action. Without this principle, moral action is impossible. But if this means anything, it means that good is to be done precisely insofar as it is good and that evil must be avoided precisely insofar as it is evil. To make an exception to this rule, any exception, is to say that evil may sometimes be done. This, in turn, means that it is not being evil that causes an action to be shunned; but if being evil does not do so, nothing else will.
Rarely is one candidate best on all the issues. A candidate who is best on some issues may hold to positions on gun control, for example, that are imprudent or perhaps even unjust. Another candidate who has wiser views on gun control may be misguided on environmental regulations. A vote for a candidate cannot be interpreted as an endorsement of every position of that candidate. This is an application of the classic “principle of double effect”. It is a foreseen but undesired effect of voting for a candidate who is on the whole the best choice that he will also pursue some unwise or perhaps even unjust policies on one or a few issues.
The principle of double effect requires, however, that the good to be achieved must be greater than the evil that is tolerated. There is something of a calculation here. One must weigh good and evil and see which is greater. If there is a candidate that does not support the legal destruction of some portion of the society, there can be no question of another candidate who does support such destruction being better on the whole. In a sane world one would never vote for a candidate who thought it should be legal to kill Blacks no matter where he stood on all the other issues. But what if both candidates fail in this way? What if both candidates—let us say there are only two—want to keep legal the destruction of the people they are meant to serve?
The crux of the moral analysis is whether one looks only at the margins. Who one votes for is a choice in some way dependent on who the other candidates are. To look only at the margins is to decide that the only evil that enters into the calculation is the difference between the two candidates. “Candidates A and B both want to kill Blacks, but candidate A also wants to kill Jews. To save the Jews, vote for B.” The difference in evil is the destruction of the Jews, since both want to destroy Blacks. Not wanting to destroy Jews is thought to justify a vote for someone who wants to destroy Blacks in the context where both candidates want to destroy Blacks.
The other view is simply to look at the evil in itself. There is no good a candidate can do that will justify the desire to destroy blacks.
But what does it mean to vote? It means that I am trying to put into authority those who will promote the common good of my society. If someone is fundamentally opposed to the common good of the society—for example, approving of the annual destruction of 1% of that society’s population—how can I vote for such a person at all? Is there any good they will do that will outweigh such an evil? If I can stop one candidate from being elected only by voting for another who fails to promote the common good on the most fundamental level, is this not choosing to do a lesser evil?
I am not jaded to the point where I say, “Everyone wants to kill the Blacks. Voting against this is getting old and doesn’t work anyway. Let’s focus on issues where we can make a difference.” I will not try to save the Jews by sacrificing the Blacks.
Afterthought: Do not be misled by the distinction between actively doing evil and allowing it to be done. This distinction has application elsewhere, but in this case the government has the obligation to protect those who live in its jurisdiction. Failing to do so is a cause of their destruction in the way that a pilot of a ship causes the shipwreck by not guiding the ship when he should have.
Sunday, October 24, 2010
Cub Scout Campout
Sure, there were tents and a campfire and boys in scout uniforms, but about all I got to see was the cooking area. One boy discovered that when you step on a hornets' nest, the thing NOT to do is to jump up and down and scream. I have never had nightmares like what that kid went through. Still, after a few hours in the ER and a good night's sleep, he was in a much better mood. This sunrise was beautiful: maybe my camera isn't up to snuff--or maybe my picture-taking skills aren't.
Sunday, October 17, 2010
Thursday, October 14, 2010
Christopher turns 11
. . . on Saturday, to be precise.
Requested Dinner: Hamburgers
Requested Dessert: Homemade Pecan Pie
Presents Received: Cap Gun, 3D bookmark, Jigsaw Puzzle, "Muscle Cars" Book
Saturday, October 2, 2010
SPBeautiful
Isabel and Juliana took part in the city's annual volunteer clean-up event. Their AHG troop raked leaves and picked up trash in the park featuring a floating granite ball, as well as in about half a mile of the railroad corridor behind the park.
Several bags of leaves and trash were collected. The girls received free T-shirts as a thank-you gift. (The logo is on the back.)
Several bags of leaves and trash were collected. The girls received free T-shirts as a thank-you gift. (The logo is on the back.)
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Being Dealt With
I know you only read this blog to see pictures of my family, but I can't help but pass along this juicy quote. As a sports fan, I sometimes wonder at the control exercised by the commissioners in the NBA and NFL. (It is bad, but not as bad, in MLB.) Yesterday, in announcing a $100,000 fine of an owner for saying the wrong thing, NBA commissioner David Stern said, "[T]hat was not something that Ted was authorized to say and he will be dealt with for that lapse in judgment.” Part of me recoils at how un-American that sounds. The other part of me wishes this sort of accountability could be imposed on our government officials.
Saturday, September 25, 2010
Seal Training
Last year, Alan asked me what a sniper is. We found a video on YouTube of Navy Seal Snipers. You can always tell when you you have hit on something natural in the soul--a geyser erupted. The boys are all now in training to become Navy Seals. Here, Gregory has written up a description of the training regimen. I am going to suggest they add a class on spelling!
(Double-click on the picture to see it larger.)
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Viva, Tommy!
Although the Dodgers were eliminated the night before, Alan and I were willing to drive to LA to take in the game. We joined the 25 other fans who arrived before the game started in singing Happy Birthday to Tommy Lasorda (now 83). The Dodgers lost, but in so doing knocked the Giants out of first. I looked around for, but did not see, Frank M. He must have had a long day in court.
P.S. Those of you who were hoing to see a photo of, you know, someone related to me: I forgot the camera. There was a guy at the stadium who took a picture of Alan and me that I was going to buy until I found out the digital copy was priced at $59.99. So, you get to see Tommy.
P.S. Those of you who were hoing to see a photo of, you know, someone related to me: I forgot the camera. There was a guy at the stadium who took a picture of Alan and me that I was going to buy until I found out the digital copy was priced at $59.99. So, you get to see Tommy.
Saturday, September 18, 2010
A Simple Pleasure
A couple of days ago, the kids were talking and somehow chocolate milk was mentioned. Stephen asked, "What does it taste like?" What!? My five year old has never had chocolate milk? Doesn't this show his grandparents have not been keeping up on their duties? Tonight, he got his first taste. . . and his second.
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
AHG Campout
Isabel and Juliana are now part of an American Heritage Girls troop. AHG is basically a Christian form of Girl Scouts. Our troop is sponsored by our Catholic parish. They have had one meeting and then went on their first campout. A kind, little snake wriggled by to provide some entertainment for the girls. By the time of this video, the screaming had subsided. An interested but still cautious Juliana observes as one of he dads holds the snake.
As you may have guessed, I do not yet know how to edit video.
As you may have guessed, I do not yet know how to edit video.
I'm his Uncle! I'm his Uncle!
On Sunday, we went to Angel Stadium to see my nephew and his Little League team be honored before the game. They marched in from right field, stopped in front of the opposing dugout--we had been told to wait by the Angel's dugout--and marched out. You can see Michael, number 9, on this shot of the big scoreboard.
Saturday, September 11, 2010
Sunday, September 5, 2010
Santa Paula Airport
On the first Sunday of every month, the Santa Paula Airport hosts an open house. Owners open up their hangars. Vintage and modern aircraft can be seen up close, and the owners will chat with visitors.
We also watched from the side of the runway as planes took off and landed. There is a program that offers free flights to kids 7 and older. We couldn't get in this month, but we will defintely be back next month.
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Honored Guests
Madeleine--this is not Isabel--wants a baby girl of her own.
Dan was able to be there. He is an old pro at baby girls.
Naomi's Baptism
Saturday, August 28, 2010
Hecho en Mexico
An old toy, but still fascinating.
After!
This picture is taken from the same spot as the one of Laurence in the potty (above). There was a lot of work done this summer. Thank you, Peter!
Mother Teresa at the College
Mother Teresa gave the commencement address at the College in 1982. As always, her words were very inspiring. The college now has a video on its website. While there, you might also have fun with the new Interactive Panoramic Tour.
Little League Champion
My nephew and godson, Michael, was part of a Little League All-Star team that won the Southern California championship and was just one game away from going to the World Series. We watched him live on ESPN2. In the last game the announcers were talking about Michael's participation in competitions playing Bach on the piano when he brought their attention back to baseball by crushing a home run over the left field fence. It was the only run Michael's team would score, but what a way to end the campaign. Way to go, Michael. I am sure that even greater things are in your future.
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